Don't think my wife of nearly 50 yrs would like that very much but I think I know how you feel. I had a similar experience with Samantha, she's sprinkled throughout my favorites. Broke my heart when she closed her page. I'm honored that Dee pleases you so much that you would want to marry her but you need to understand that she's really just another grumpy old man.
I absolutely adore Dee's entire body and true Lady like manner, I don't care that she is now 80! I want her to marry me and allow myself to love her for the true Lady she is!